 Duane
Simolke ReviewsAnything
but Straight: Unmasking
the Scandals and Lies Behind the Ex-Gay Myth by
Wayne R.
Besen |
 Anything but Straight: Unmasking the Scandals and Lies Behind the Ex-Gay Myth by Wayne R. Besen 1560234466 Haworth Press Trade Paper, 242 pages, $19.95 | Despite
years of hearing, reading, and writing about this topic, I
can’t think
of a better ex-gay resource than Wayne R. Besen’s book
Anything but
Straight: Unmasking the Scandals and Lies Behind the Ex-Gay Myth. Besen
not only gives an accessible and easy-to-follow history of the
sham’s
path of destruction but also makes it clear why so many gays and
nongays choose to believe its obvious lies. He also exposes the many
people who profit monetarily, politically, or even sexually from
ensnaring more ex-gay followers. Still, Besen also shows how most of the people who become involved with or lead these ministries probably mean well. More importantly, he shows how gays and their allies can expose these hurtful groups, which rely heavily on wild semantics, shaky statistics, pseudo psychology, and highly questionable science, all the while trying to appear Bible-based. Besen also shows how gays can make their communities less vulnerable to ex-gay groups, while warning those communities about insidious new tactics that the increasingly media-savvy ex-gay leaders use to lure parents into forcing children to join the ex-gay circus. For groups that keep claiming that all of their members come there voluntarily, they certainly keep taking advantage of parental pressuring and other fears of rejection! Best of all, Besen offers resources and alternatives for people who might want to join these groups. He even defends, to my satisfaction, his undercover efforts to capture all of the information that appears in this sometimes shocking but always fascinating volume. I suggest Besen’s study for all gays, all of their allies, and anyone who thinks the ex-gay movement needs support or more recruits. I wrote about the ex-gay movement and various other gay-related topics extensively in works that appear in my collection Holding Me Together: Essays and Poems. I use a fictional character to explore ex-gay issues in “Mirrors: A Blackmail Letter,” a story that appears in my book The Acorn Stories; that character reappears in “Fat Diary,” a more light-hearted story I wrote for an anthology, The Acorn Gathering. I also suggest Ronald L. Donaghe’s scathing fictional treatment of the ex-gay movement, The Salvation Mongers, as well as the disturbing documentary One Nation Under God and—for some needed levity on the topic—the silly yet likable comedy But I’m A Cheerleader. |
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